Grandma Netta hadn't really celebrated the holidays for years. The decorations remained in their boxes, the radio silent, and December came and went just like any other month, only colder, only darker. After her husband died, the holidays were too loud with memories, too full of spaces he used to fill.But this year was different.This... Continue Reading →
I believe that just embracing who I am has been my biggest achievement. As far back as I can remember, I thought that accomplishments are something you could point to diplomas earned, to goals met, to celebrations had. But as I grew, I began to realize that there is something far more powerful than anything... Continue Reading →
One of life's deeper heartbreaks is the loss of a spouse. It affects one's daily routines, sense of identity, safety, and perception of the future. A partner who shared your burdens, dreams, and silent moments is now taken, and the silence is just too great to fill. Overwhelmed, maybe-but starting over after a loss is... Continue Reading →
The Saturday came with a gentleness that only happens when a week has been as long and grueling as this one has been. Ericka led the charge, entering the restaurant, scanning the room from habit rather than need. She spotted their table, the one by the window that always caught the light exactly right, and... Continue Reading →
There comes a point in every spiritual journey when everything shifts. Sometimes it's gradually, a slow awakening that gently nudges you toward a new chapter. Other times, it's born out of trauma-an abrupt, painful breaking that forces you to rebuild your inner world from the ground up. When one restarts spiritually, one is not only... Continue Reading →
We are communicating the whole time, even when we don't even think about it. Every action we let slide, every crossed line we silently permitted, and each discomfort we swallow produces a message. This shows others what we value, what we expect from them, and above all, what we are willing to tolerate. It's a... Continue Reading →
First holiday season without my hubby. Lately, I've been getting through days as though I am made of glass, fragile, see-through. I'm mentally and emotionally exhausted in a way that doesn't flare up loudly but instead lingers like a weight I carry everywhere. It's not so much that I do not want to care about... Continue Reading →
We often wait for the right timing, the right plan, or the right version of ourselves, hoping that one day things will feel "ready." But here's a dose of reality: life is brief, and the perfect moment is but an illusion we have been socialized to pursue. Go easy on yourself. You're navigating a world... Continue Reading →
In every person's life, there comes a moment when one feels the tug between who they truly are and who the world prefers them to be. Subtle at first, it's an unspoken pressure to shrink a little, blend in a little, or tone yourself down so no one feels threatened, intimidated, or left behind. But... Continue Reading →
Grief is perhaps one of the most complicated emotional states there exists as a human. It does not move along a linear path, according to the milestone book, or some clearly defined stage process. It shows up instead as shifting weather: some days, clear and manageable; others, stormy and overwhelming. And the truth is, both... Continue Reading →
It's tempting to think that our progress only counts when it's visible-when it's photographed, approved, applauded, or understood by others. But some of the most meaningful growth happens in private, away from the eyes and opinions of the world. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is be proud of yourself in silence. You... Continue Reading →
There's a kind of wisdom that comes from looking back on a situation and realizing you knew the truth long before you acted on it. Most of us have lived through moments where spirit, intuition, or that quiet inner voice whispered "no" yet something in us stayed, tried, or hoped anyway. And when the lesson... Continue Reading →
As the week winds down and the weekend peeks around the corner, today is a gentle reminder to pause, take a breath, and acknowledge how far you have come. Even if the past few days felt chaotic or imperfect, you made it here with lessons learned, small victories earned, and strength you might not even... Continue Reading →
This is one of the most powerful lessons we learn on the journey of self-growth: you can fully accept people and, at the same time, protect your peace.Acceptance does not mean access.Love is not necessarily about proximity. And understanding someone does not mean that you have to carry them. We are always trying to fit... Continue Reading →
Life rarely unfolds in a straight line. Rather, it's a zigzag, with twists and turns, surprises and moments of clarity and confusion. At those moments, a simple declaration can serve as an anchor: "I trust the path unfolding before me, and I walk it with peace, courage, and gratitude." Trusting the Path Trust is not... Continue Reading →
The success of the new Mama’s Kitchen location was undeniable. Newspapers praised it as “the soul of the city on a plate,” while local news stations ran features on the legacy behind its recipes. Long lines wrapped around the block on weekends, with people eager to taste the fried catfish, collard greens, and candied yams... Continue Reading →
The peace of that moment in the common room felt like a perfect, fragile bubble. It was a feeling Jayla clung to, a stark contrast to the cold panic of that Tuesday notification months ago. But at Helping Hands, bubbles were made to be popped. The first pinprick came the next morning. Resa, her voice... Continue Reading →
The glow from Chika’s laptop was a small, defiant campfire in the dark expanse of her penthouse apartment. Royce slept in her bed, the steady rhythm of his breathing a stark contrast to the frantic beat of her heart. Verdant Logic’s first major client, a sleek European bank, was launching in six hours, and a... Continue Reading →
We spend a great amount of time discussing forgiving others. We analyze their mistakes, ruminate over our wounds, and work through the hard labor of releasing anger. But there is a far greater, and overlooked, forgiveness that comes before it: the forgiveness we owe to ourselves. If you were to re-read your life, or rather... Continue Reading →
The gentle glow of Chika Harris's three monitors was the only light still lit on the 38th floor of AetherTech. It was Friday night at 8 PM. Again. Her fingers, that blur of proficient keystrokes, were still. She looked at the lines of code, not seeing solutions, but seeing cages. Another of her brilliant ideas... Continue Reading →
The Core Idea: Outgrowing Your Old OS Think of your mind and your habits as an operating system (like Windows or macOS). It was installed in your childhood and early adulthood by your parents, teachers, culture, and experiences. It worked well enough to get you this far. But now, you're trying to run new, more... Continue Reading →
Hey everyone, I know life in 2025 is pretty wild right now. We're all moving through rapid changes, big feelings, unexpected plot twists and somehow still showing up, still holding on, still hoping. That in itself is beautiful. That’s strength. As we step into a brand new week, I just want to take a moment... Continue Reading →
There’s a powerful kind of peace that comes from realizing this one simple truth: What they say about me is none of my business. For most of my life, I was tuned in to the frequency of other people’s opinions listening, analyzing, absorbing. I’d replay conversations in my head, wondering if I said the “right”... Continue Reading →
There’s a quiet sacred truth that so many people learn the hard way: how you treat others can determine how long your blessings last. In this unpredictable world status, money, and attention often take center stage, it's easy to forget that these things are fragile. They can feel permanent earned, deserved, even guaranteed but they’re... Continue Reading →
Every sunrise offers a new beginning a quiet invitation to grow, to evolve, to live more deeply and fully. And lately, I’ve been listening to that invitation more closely. The truth is, I am growing every day. Growth doesn’t always look like big, flashy changes. Sometimes, it’s as subtle as shifting your mindset, choosing to... Continue Reading →
To speak a line of truth so pure not wrapped in pride, nor trimmed with fear,but rising from that inner corewhere silence listens, bright and clear. Not forged for praise, nor built to last,but breathed as though from ancient flame—a word so just, so free of mask,it does not cling to speaker's name. It ripples... Continue Reading →
We’re taught in society that strength means winning, being louder, pushing harder, rising above others. But real strength isn’t rooted in dominance it’s grounded in detachment. The Illusion of Dominance Dominance is seductive. It gives the illusion of control and superiority. But at its core, dominance is often fueled by insecurity. It demands validation, thrives... Continue Reading →
I call my power. With the guidance and protection of my ancestors.Protect my spirit. Shield my soul.Let the winds of truth circle me wide,No lies may pass, no fear may hide. I summon strength from root to crown,No force may shake, no chain hold down.My heart is flame, my will is steel,What I declare, the... Continue Reading →
Healing often involves: Sitting with pain and discomfort Reflecting on what hurt you and why Processing emotions (grief, anger, guilt) Making peace with the past Choosing healthier patterns moving forward Avoiding looks like: Constant distraction or busyness Minimizing or denying the pain Blaming others without introspection Refusing to talk or think about it Saying “I’m... Continue Reading →
The world often applauds loud achievement over quiet intention, the line between ego and soul can blur. But beneath the surface of our ambitions and actions lies a truth worth pausing for: The Ego's Appetite Ego thrives on applause. It’s the voice in us that craves validation, attention, and status. It wants to be seen,... Continue Reading →
There’s something beautiful about moving at your own pace. Not rushing to keep up. Not slowing down to fit in. Just listening — really listening — to your own rhythm. In a world constantly telling us how to live, what to chase, who to be… there’s power in saying: “I'm doing my own thing.” Your... Continue Reading →
“Your past is just a story. And once you realize this, it has no power over you.” The Chains We Can’t See Everyone has a past. Some parts we cherish—first loves, great achievements, quiet moments of joy. Others haunt us—failures, trauma, shame, missed opportunities. The danger arises when we let those moments define us, chain... Continue Reading →
Life is fleeting. We’re not here forever, and if there’s one truth we all share, it’s that we don’t know how much time we have left. But within that uncertain window, we are given a choice: to live passively, or to live purposefully — to make a difference, to leave a mark, and to inspire.... Continue Reading →
“I am the dream of my ancestors—walking, breathing, remembering.” I come from a people who knew freedom long before captivity. My blood carries the rhythm of warriors and midwives, landkeepers and storytellers. My spirit remembers the soil of Mississippi, the wisdom of Choctaw ancestors, and the resistance woven into the roots of North Carolina. I... Continue Reading →
We live in a time where the words "energy," "vibes," and "aura" are used in everyday conversations. You’ll hear people say, “I love her energy,” or “His vibe was off,” and we instantly feel like we’ve read someone’s entire character just from a moment of interaction. But there’s a difference we don’t talk about enough:... Continue Reading →
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